A Small Home, A Big Lesson

A cute little home was built working day and night. Interestingly it was built by just two of them. They weren’t bothered by the bad weather nor were they tired sourcing the raw materials. They built it with lots of love and hope. Only a little would be completed each day, but still it was constructed consistently.

One fine morning, I woke up with a cute surprise of seeing that beautiful house getting finished on the window of my room and both of them were flying with happiness. Could you make a guess on who these little architects were? yes, it was a pair of pigeons building their nest for their young one to be born. After a few days I could see an egg on the nest, a little life waiting to make its arrival on this earth. Both the parents were actively protecting the eggs.

On one morning, I was half asleep and I suddenly could hear some little chirping sound. I ran out of my bed with curiosity and hope and to my surprise there was a baby pigeon that hatched some moments earlier, yellowish in colour and searching for her mom and dad. It felt so amazing to experience this wonderful moment which I haven’t experienced in my life. In no time, one of her parents came flying and I gently moved away.

From that day I could see active parents protecting their young one from other pigeons and crows, bringing food from different directions. They had special way of communicating things, a special noise was made to make the young one feel secured and protective. With each day I could see the little one growing into a pigeon though initially it did look like a chick!

After few days, I could see the little one flipping her wings so actively wanting to fly but couldn’t do so but she never tried stopping and her parents would watch her sitting aside. Within four to five days, she made her first flight! Her proud parents were watching this with pride and happiness and I was happy and most importantly inspired on seeing this wonderful journey of two loving pigeons making their own family and successfully raising their young one after so many hurdles.

This beautiful journey of them gave me a different perception on life and even more deeper understanding of life. Every life on this planet is precious and every life has its own struggles and challenges to be faced from the time it is formed and yet they don’t give up. Parents in every species are so protective and caring irrespective of their ability and most importantly the little one that taught me, keep trying and one day you would achieve what you were working for.

I hope this post brings a new lens on viewing life, on understanding how beautifully lives are created on this planet and how the cycle of life has been continuing for billions of years. These are some moments that we tend to overlook in our busy lives but eventually these little things add meaning to life and they are the most beautiful ones!

SIMPLE STEPS THAT WILL MAKE YOU HAPPY 🙂

We live in a society where ones happiness is decided by the society itself. We keep searching for happiness somewhere around, but end up finding nowhere. That is because it lies within us but we don’t understand this and keep searching out. Let me share somethings that I found to keep myself happy. These things are based on my perception.

1. The first and foremost thing is to analyse yourself completely so that you could find those things that make you feel down. Now write down those things in a paper or may be in your personal diary if you have one. Please note that when you do this ensure that you are completely relaxed and silent. Silence is your first step to stay in peace.

2. Once you complete, read patiently word by word and think about that things. Make sure you think about that in different ways. There are things that might seem correct for you but could be vice-versa for the other because we all are brought up in different environment. This is a crucial step where you will find out that most of your problems and worries are pointless. Most of them would be created by yourself. Hope this will clear so many doubts and your worries.

3. Once all your queries are satisfied to an extend, the next step is to divert or focus your mind on positive thinkings. Think on things that make you happy and relaxed. Start practicing them daily atleast for some minutes. It could be drawing, gardening, etc…

4. Make a habit of practicing meditation daily. You will see wonders happening in those few minutes of silence everyday. It is always best to start your day with meditation. There are so many guidance videos you could get from internet, make use of them.

5. Exercise comes in next, which is definitely an important task to do everyday. A healthy mind in a healthy body. Thus makesure that you do some kind of exercise else yoga for few minutes.

6. Start growing a plant. Take care of it in every way. Spent time with your plant. This will cure all your stress and hypertension. You can also own pets. It has been proved that the risk of cardinal problems are reduced when you spent more time with pets.

7. Don’t let your thoughts in things that make you feel depressed. Always watch your thoughts. Whenever you find something disturbing. Immediately think of positive things that had happened in your life.

8. Take a jar and name it as ‘Jar of Blessings’. Whenever you feel happy or blessed write it in a small paper and put it in the jar. Make sure you atleast write down one thing daily. This practise will make you realise how blessed and gifted you are. You can read all those small bits of papers once or twice in a year.

9. Spent more time with your family. Because there is ultimately no one more loving and caring in this universe than them. Talk more with them than spending in social medias. This will make you understand the meaning of true love and sacrifice.

10.Start you day by praying god for this great day and promise that you would live it with whole heartedness and face all challenges with enthusiasm. Every day when you go to sleep there are two things mandatory. Firstly thank the universe or the almighty for this wonderful day and secondly ask for forgiveness for mistakes that you have done knowingly or unknowingly.

11.The last and the important point is to stop expecting and living your life as it comes. Always stay contented. Enjoy all the challenges that comes on your way. Hope miracles would happen in every second of your life.

There might be so many other things that I would have missed out but I found all the above steps useful in finding happiness. Happiness is not out it is all about finding in ourselves. Enjoy the little things. Love everything around you even the little plants, trees, creatures and the nature around you. Hope you find your happiness within and live your life🙂