SIMPLE STEPS THAT WILL MAKE YOU HAPPY 🙂

We live in a society where ones happiness is decided by the society itself. We keep searching for happiness somewhere around, but end up finding nowhere. That is because it lies within us but we don’t understand this and keep searching out. Let me share somethings that I found to keep myself happy. These things are based on my perception.

1. The first and foremost thing is to analyse yourself completely so that you could find those things that make you feel down. Now write down those things in a paper or may be in your personal diary if you have one. Please note that when you do this ensure that you are completely relaxed and silent. Silence is your first step to stay in peace.

2. Once you complete, read patiently word by word and think about that things. Make sure you think about that in different ways. There are things that might seem correct for you but could be vice-versa for the other because we all are brought up in different environment. This is a crucial step where you will find out that most of your problems and worries are pointless. Most of them would be created by yourself. Hope this will clear so many doubts and your worries.

3. Once all your queries are satisfied to an extend, the next step is to divert or focus your mind on positive thinkings. Think on things that make you happy and relaxed. Start practicing them daily atleast for some minutes. It could be drawing, gardening, etc…

4. Make a habit of practicing meditation daily. You will see wonders happening in those few minutes of silence everyday. It is always best to start your day with meditation. There are so many guidance videos you could get from internet, make use of them.

5. Exercise comes in next, which is definitely an important task to do everyday. A healthy mind in a healthy body. Thus makesure that you do some kind of exercise else yoga for few minutes.

6. Start growing a plant. Take care of it in every way. Spent time with your plant. This will cure all your stress and hypertension. You can also own pets. It has been proved that the risk of cardinal problems are reduced when you spent more time with pets.

7. Don’t let your thoughts in things that make you feel depressed. Always watch your thoughts. Whenever you find something disturbing. Immediately think of positive things that had happened in your life.

8. Take a jar and name it as ‘Jar of Blessings’. Whenever you feel happy or blessed write it in a small paper and put it in the jar. Make sure you atleast write down one thing daily. This practise will make you realise how blessed and gifted you are. You can read all those small bits of papers once or twice in a year.

9. Spent more time with your family. Because there is ultimately no one more loving and caring in this universe than them. Talk more with them than spending in social medias. This will make you understand the meaning of true love and sacrifice.

10.Start you day by praying god for this great day and promise that you would live it with whole heartedness and face all challenges with enthusiasm. Every day when you go to sleep there are two things mandatory. Firstly thank the universe or the almighty for this wonderful day and secondly ask for forgiveness for mistakes that you have done knowingly or unknowingly.

11.The last and the important point is to stop expecting and living your life as it comes. Always stay contented. Enjoy all the challenges that comes on your way. Hope miracles would happen in every second of your life.

There might be so many other things that I would have missed out but I found all the above steps useful in finding happiness. Happiness is not out it is all about finding in ourselves. Enjoy the little things. Love everything around you even the little plants, trees, creatures and the nature around you. Hope you find your happiness within and live your life🙂

AMAZON-‘STRIVING FOR SURVIVAL’

Do we really have concern for forests…?I swear that even half of the population wouldn’t bother AMAZONS after a week.It is a shame on us that so many of us don’t even know what tree grows in our backyard but we start complaining others destroying forests.

AMAZONS have become trending in almost all social medias.They have a long history as of from the origin of the mankind.We have only discovered five percent of the total species of the Amazons.Ninety five percent of them are yet to be discovered.It is horrible that we are going to destroy them without even knowing that they ever existed.About eighty five percent of the edible species were once indigenous to the Amazons.They are the major producers of oxygen making our earth still a safe place to live in.Today turning out be exhausted in each second was once which had seen lot of growth and decline of several civilizations.

I recently read a post that describes an idea of transforming the Sahara deserts into a lush green dense rainforests,but will this really workout…?It requires trillions of money just to initiate this project.It also has several other environmental issues. If we can’t protect the treasure that we have today how will we find a new one…

We keep boasting about creating civilizations in Mars forgetting the one that created crucial civilizations on earth.We keep exploiting our nature just to make our lives more comfortable forgetting the one who gave us this life.

EVERY DROP COUNTS,EVERY ACT OF HUMAN AFFECTS THE ENVIRONMENT.

Love for our nature has to be from each and every individual.Only then initiation of conserving nature would begin.

Women-‘The Most Vulnerable Beings’

Once upon a time people never wanted a girl baby because it would be hard for their parents to find a partner and get them married. But today people are scared to have a girl baby not for the financial reasons, it is hard even to protect a 6 months old baby from being sexually harassed. I feel so shameful and painful in writing this post. Ours is a country where we celebrated women. We have given equal importance to women as goddess, queens and lot more. There are evidences in history that tells us that once women were ruling powerful dynasties equal to men. There were great poets like Avaiyar, who was respected by the most powerful rulers. But today they are not even considered to be a human being. They are treated as sexual toys. It is quite heartbreaking to hear that a six months old baby in Warangal was sexually abused and confronted to death. It is reported that the accused was alcoholic when this had happened. The parents of that little baby are from a very poor background that they find very difficult even to have a proper meal a day. Do you think that the baby who doesn’t even know what world is would be given justice or would their parents would. This issue would be a headlines not more than a week. Again people forget and start running for their lives. Is that only enough if we share in our WhatsApp status or groups. It is time to think and contribute at least something to the welfare of women. I don’t tell you to praise women but at least not hurt them. Let us start respecting each and every women we see, let it be our mother, sister, neighbour or even a stranger.

Instead of asking or protesting for the change, let us be the change. Let us start this from within.

SHE

SHE is like everyone here.SHE too has the same eyes,nose,hands,legs and most importantly the same feelings that we have.We see her around but don’t notice her pains.We make comments on their looks but don’t notice their insecurities.We laugh at them but don’t notice their tears.They too are humans just like how god created us.They too are our sister,mother or friend.They are just like the other genders,THE TRANSGENDERS.

Most of us would have experienced this situation.I do come across a lot of transgenders in bus stands and railway stations.They come,ask for money and praise you, if you give money else curse you.Most of them don’t react,they pretend like they don’t see or hear or know what is happening around them.Some offer them money just for the sake to escape from their harsh words.There are some who question them and give advices that are of no use.I accept that I too would do one of the above.

But how many of us would think about them.All of us are busy in our lives that we don’t have time even to look at our neighbour’s face.We often forget the incidents that we experienced with them.We always keep complaining them for their behaviour .How many of us have thought that what made them to be in this place today.Directly or indirectly we as a society are also responsible for their struggles.

Almost all of us have atleast one person to whom we share our love , our pains and happiness.Imagine a day in your life where nobody talks to you,no one next to you for you to share something.People see you as an alien who just jumped from the sky.Making fun of you,giving you nicknames,teasing you for your appearance.There is not even a single person for you to go and cry.Just horrible!how painful it is to imagine.But these people carry these painful feelings with them.

Everyone one likes to lead their life according to their wish.So then why are they not allowed to do so.Its ridiculous to lead woman life in a men body.We find it very hard to accept them even as a human being.We are made to believe traditionally that they are not a part in our society.

Next time when you see someone like them,before complaining just think for a moment of their struggles and pain.I swear that you won’t behave as you did before.Teach your kids to be kind to them and treat them as their friend or a sister.I won’t tell you that you have to give your money to them ,try to accept them as a human being.All they want is our acceptance.The day we start accepting them,we would see a tremendous change not only in their life but in our society as well.We are all same and all equal .There is only only one thing that keeps this world going that is love.

So respect everyone and their feelings as well.Spread love and peace so that humanity sustains for our next generations.

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STEPS FOR GLASS PAINTING(BEGINNERS)

Glass painting is an art of painting the glasses.It is always amazing to see colourful designs in a boring glass.Though the art of glass painting seems difficult,it is quite easy to master this art with frequent practices.I am going to tell you 8 easy steps to do this.So lets get started!

The steps mentioned below are very basic steps that are to be followed in glass painting.

STEP 1:

First of all take a plain glass(it is always better to choose a glass that is comparatively thin) and clean it well using a wet newspaper(it cleans in a better way ).Take care that there is no dirts in the glass.It must be completely neat.

STEP 2:

Next draw a picture of the image that you want to paint in the glass in a neat paper.Always try to outline as simple as possible.

STEP 3:

Now place the paper that has the drawing below the glass that you are going to paint.Make sure that it doesn’t move and is fixed.(never do this in a soft surface like bed and sofas, as there are chances for your glass to break).

STEP 4:

Now trace the picture in the paper to the glass using a glass outliner (it is commonly available in the market).It may quite be shivering if you are going to draw for the first time.So practice drawing using the outliner in a OHP sheet(a kind of transparent sheet).

STEP 5:

Once you have completed the sketching,let the glass dry for 3 or 4 hours until it is completely dry.

STEP 6:

This is going to be the most colourful as well as a difficult part.Now fill the spaces using suitable glass colours(they are also available in liquid form).The most important point to remember here is that when you fill colours,small bubbles would arise.Take a small pin and break those bubbles as and when they arise.It is very important because if you leave this bubbles they would break after few minutes and create spaces in the colour which looks so odd in your painting.Take care that you don’t add excess colours because they may overflow through the outline.

STEP 7:

Yes!we have almost come to the end.Now let your painting dry for about a day.Don’t disturb your painting.

STEP 8:

Now your beautiful painting is ready.Now reverse the painting stick a paper (white or with colour that would match the painting) on the side you have painted.The other side remains smooth.

These are the basic steps for you to start painting the glasses.Follow these steps for painting the glasses with brilliant colours.Hope you like this post.